Dementia vs Alzheimer’s: What’s the Difference, Anyway?

When I was a kid, we called it senility.  “She’s going senile,” I heard whispered about the old lady with peculiar behavior.  Or the elderly man who had become forgetful. In fact, anyone old, frail, or feeble, walked with a cane, or was over the age of my parents, might be called senile.  If the

BRI Care Consultation- Knowing When

by Lauri Scharf, LSW, MSHS How do I know if I need help?  Most likely if you are asking this question the answer is now.  Are you providing support to a loved one with a chronic condition, trying to find the potential community resources or not sure where to find reliable information? Many times, family

Urinary Tract Infections

When Martha’s mother was diagnosed with a urinary tract infection, Martha was surprised.  Martha lived with and took good care of her 86-year old mother. “She didn’t complain about any pain or burning,” Martha said. “But in hindsight, mom was acting, well, goofy!” It’s true that burning pain and frequent urination are classic symptoms of

Getting the Help You Need

When my next-door neighbor, Jan, became her mother’s caregiver, I told Jan, “If there’s anything I can do to help, please let me know.”  She asked me if I could provide help on the one day that week that my schedule was booked and I was already committed.  I tried to explain to her that

A Caregiver Support Group

Caregivers say that being a caregiver is rewarding in many ways. Being able to spend time with a loved one can be filled with precious moments that create lasting memories. Other rewards might be spiritual or personal growth, comfort to the caregiver, as well as a sense of pride or accomplishment for a job well

What’s Love Got to Do With It?

“Caring for a Loved One.”  This phrase is so often used when referring to what caregivers do, evoking a picture in your mind of lovingly holding your (husband, wife, grandma, grandpa, mother, father)’s hand, being fulfilled by their appreciative words because of the kind and generous care you provide for them. It’s true; providing care

Be Kind to Your Mind

by Erin Wallace, CDP Do you find yourself feeling anxious, sad, or hopeless because of the COVID-19 pandemic? If so, you are not alone. Emotional distress can be especially acute in caregivers, older adults who live alone or are socially isolated. Older adults in a variety of settings may be less able to visit with

What Caregivers Really Want for Christmas

The holidays are right around the corner. While many people are busy shopping, baking, and going to holiday parties, family caregivers often don’t have time or energy for additional holiday tasks when already providing 24/7 care for their spouse, child, other relative, or friend. If someone asked a caregiver what they want for Christmas, a

National Caregiver Appreciation Month….an ideal time to start taking care of YOU!

November is “National Caregiver Appreciation Month.” Or “National Family Caregiver Month.” I am stumped. I’ve seen both titles used, and can’t seem to get to the bottom of the matter. I, however, prefer appreciation.  It’s not that I don’t appreciate family caregivers. I sure do.  But not all caregivers are family.  Some are friends. Some

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